Friday, 22 May 2015

Question 1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?

I'm assuming alive and real, rather than dead and fictional, which places some limits. Still a big question so it deserves some thought. Writing it all down might help me as I'm famously limited at thinking through all of the options for myself.

Firstly, do I even want it to be a famous person? It's an opportunity to see someone I don't normally see, and this might be a family member or friend from the past.  Somewhat strangely, old school teachers and figures from my days at Westminster Abbey come to mind. Michael Keall, Headmaster; Edward Carpenter, Dean; Neil Collins, Cannon at that time; Douglas Guest, Organist. At least two of these are dead, however.  More from this time include school pals whom one did not maintain contact with Daniel G, Anthony M, Chris S, Michael B, Tom J, Phil E, Andrew G, Hargreaves, Derek H, Andrew T, David T. And more. However, I've already ruled out old friends so let's not extend the list.  I would not be overjoyed to go for a meal with any old friend but even more so to spend a few days with them back in situ as it were. Although experience shows this can be something of a let down.

Famous people are an obvious category. But famous for what? Politics, education, humanitarians, writers, business people, which category to pick. Obviously they're not mutually exclusive certainly. I have a serious side, but also a good sense of humour.  Noam Chomsky would clearly be clever and interesting, but would he be entertaining too?

Is the quest for entertainment, information, or learning? Or just to satisfy my curiosity.  That seems like a sensible criteria, as any attempt to be more analytical is doomed to perpetual refinement and time is limited. So. For personal curiosity, I would like to meet someone who is insanely wealthy, but who either has experience of poverty or an active history of engagement to do something about it.  The person that pops into my head at this point is Bill Gates. I'm surprised by my choice.


Twenty questions

What are some of the questions?

1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
7. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.
8. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
9. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
10. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
11. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future, or anything else, what would you want to know?
12. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
13. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
14. What do you value most in a friendship?
15. What is your most treasured memory?
16. What is your most terrible memory?
17. What does friendship mean to you?
18. What roles do love and affection play in your life?
19. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?
20. Complete this sentence:”I wish I had someone with whom I could share…”
21. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.
22. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.
23. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.
24. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
25. Tell your partner something that you like about them already.
26. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
27. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?